It is obvious you and your wife have some marital issues. It's obvious every one must join you and your group to fulfill some self righteous venture. It is that obvious. Will your son in law needs to back off! It's obvious pathological lying is what many are good with . That's the art of preaching. Your business is still standing but you're still miserable. Trying to makes up for past life? It's obvious many want fellowship but for the wrong reasons. It's all the drama of the cult business. That's the way it works. Corns upkeep of a sister splinter group is off beat with the real thing. A lot has been witnessed by your group. Behaviors inconsistent and out of harmony sync with the God and His ways. Your a hard headed MS boy toy. It will take time but you'll realize how far fetched the groups have gone. Not much has changed. It's the Spirit man not the joining stuff that makes a believer.